FAMILY is often a word many of use to describe a group of people we identify with on a regular basis as the backbone of our support system.
FAMILY could include those related by blood lines as well as those we have established a great kinship with through friendship, loyalty, and respect. My mother taught me one simple principle throughout life and I continue to share it with my children and that is "if you don't have nothing else in this world, next to God you have
FAMILY." These words have resonated with me through the years. As I approach my fourth decade of living, I too am reminded that
FAITH in God and
FAMILY are two great power sources of strength we just can't live without.
FAMILY: a group of people who are related to each other; a group of related people including people who lived in the past. (
Merriam-Webster Dictionary)
FAITH: strong belief or trust in someone or something; belief in the existence of God; strong religious feelings or beliefs. (
Merriam-Webster Dictionary)
After reading a soul stirring rendition of
FAITH as recalled by a fellow genealogist and supporter of all things technology related with respect to genealogy and
FAMILY history, I began to reach back to my childhood and remember the days of old. Thank you
+Luckie Daniels for the revival and I must say again, thank you to your Uncle Jake for the sermon. Uncle Jake is of no relation to me (at the present moment but we share southern roots alike) and he was a beloved family member and great uncle of Luckie who wrote the beloved rendition
5th Edition Carnival of African American Genealogy ~ REBIRTH: Journeying By Faith post on her blog
Our Georgia Roots. As I began to read and travel along Uncle Jake's journey and understood
FAITH more and the connection with
FAMILY, I immediately went back to my childhood memories of growing up on Cincinnati, Ohio and my beloved church family.
Going to church as a child was not a task, but it was
FAMILY tradition. I remember going to church Sunday school promptly every Sunday while attending the
Beulah Missionary Baptist Church. Sunday mornings consisted of eating breakfast with my great-grandparents Granny (Anna Lue Barrow-Heath) and Granddaddy (Mitchell Heath), their beautiful daughter my beloved Grandmother, Jessie Mae Heath-Eubanks, and my aunts who are like my big sisters, Darlene and Sherry. Sunday morning was about
FAMILY. And after Sunday school, we held our lesson review which always included the church and family elders rendering praise to us
'young folk' for remembering our bible verse or simply being able to stand before the congregation and summarize what we learned in forty-five minutes. Singing in the choir was not a task either, but it was so much fun because it was the one time children could stand in church and belt out melodious songs loudly without being scolded for being too loud. And we were a part of the worship experience! What's amazing to me now as I am writing this is the fact I called the church service a worship experience, because as child growing up old school - it was simply
church. After church, we would travel back to Granny and Granddaddy's house to a home cooked meal like no other. Every Sunday was like Thanksgiving. And every meal was prepared with love and especially for the
FAMILY.
One of my favorite songs growing up was
'God Has Smiled On Me' and then for the choir director to pass each one us in the choir the microphone to sing a lead part, well you couldn't tell me nothing then and you can't tell me nothing now!
God has smiled on me, He has set me free.
God has smiled on me, He's been good to me.
He is the source of all my joy, He fills me with His love.
Everything that I need, He sends it down from above.
God has smiled on me, He has set me free.
God has smiled on me, He's been good to me.
A light unto my path is He, Without Him I would fall.
I don't know what He is to you, But to me He's my all and all.
God has smiled on me, He has set me free.
God has smiled on me, He's been good to me.
A simple song but with a powerful message for the young and the old.
FAITH and
FAMILY for me are joined at the hip. Why one may ask? Well for me it is simple and pure in nature. Our Ancestors lived on the promises there would be better days than their eyes had seen. The Ancestors had
FAITH God would bring about change if not in their time, then in the time of their children and generations of grandchildren. The Ancestors believed in the power of prayer, believed in the
FAMILY network, believed in the principle their is power in numbers, and more importantly believed in a higher power guiding them through the ages. So the Ancestors had
FAITH which has been instilled in all of us whether we embrace it or not. And the Ancestors and how we identify with one another today is representative of our
FAMILY.

On November 9, 2013, I joined the FaceBook group
African American Genealogy & Slave Ancestry Research (AAGSAR) and immediately my life changed as a result of a group of individuals dedicated to our respective families' histories and honoring the Ancestors as they guide us along our journey. The group's founder is +Luckie Daniels and subsequently the founder of the new Google+ group +AAGSAR: You Got Roots?! which is another extension of the AAGSAR FAMILY. This group of professionals, mentors, supporters, teachers, and leaders of all things technology related has pushed so many of us newbies into an online experience uniting family history and genealogy research with online exposure like no other. I can tie the two experiences of church and social media together because for me it is FAITH in knowing I can reach the masses in a new way as well as building upon FAMILY connections in a way I never imagined. In November, I never thought I would be blogging. In November, I never thought I would create a Twitter account or even Google+ account, and fast forward to today and I am doing all three. And it is simply because of the belief Luckie and the AAGSAR Tribe FAMILY has in me to rise to the occasion. It is because of countless family members who call upon me day and night asking how the branches connect? Where did various surnames originate? When did the FAMILY migrate north, west, and east? It is an honor and I count it a privilege to have the knowledge as well as the willingness to share it. FAITH and FAMILY, The Tie That Binds!
Through the years as I have journeyed searching and searching for answers to who I am and just where did my Ancestors come from, I have learned to rely on my
FAITH trusting and believing I would find them. I would find the roots of the many branches, the lines that connect us all, the tree that keeps on growing and sprouting new branches and leaves in each new season. Yes, we are in a new season but filled with the
'ole time way' and yet I still feel like the little boy singing '
God Has Smiled On Me'. I am grateful for my 40 years of living, and I know my living will not be in vain. I am grateful the Ancestors called upon me and countless others to tell their stories, fill the pages so they can be read, post online so they can be found and families reunited, and take to the airwaves so all can listen to their voices.
FAMILY is everything to me and my
FAITH keeps me strong.
As I continue to bridge the gaps between the past and present, songs of old like
Leaning On The Everlasting Arms, Down At The Cross, Glad To Be In The Service, and It Is Well With My Soul touch my heart and fill me with great joy and pride with a sense of belonging
. To Some Ancestry studies and genealogical research is a chore or even a burden. To me and many others, it is rejuvenating and rewarding as we champion on behalf of the Ancestors as well as the generations of kinfolks searching for answers in hopes they too can find a connection as well as be found. I am living each day #WalkingInPurpose while leaning, trusting, believing, and praying I will make a difference and leave the legacy for the next generation to pay it forward. My
FAITH is strong and the
FAMILY is keeping me motivated. Thank you to my beloved family and my precious gifts, my children for believing in me and sharing in all the excitement as you have embarked on the journey along with me over the years. To Luckie and +
AAGSAR: You Got Roots?! FAMILY, many thanks for the continued support and motivation!
Ancestors, I am listening, honored, and thankful for the Ancestors Call!
FAITH and FAMILY, The Tie That Binds!
Dante